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Change Your Perspective and Change Your Life: Love & Belonging

Author Brene` Brown subtly defines love and belonging in its deepest form! I am so touched by her findings. Here what she says:

 "We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness, and affection. Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow. We can only love others as much as we love ourselves.

Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Love can only survive these injuries if they are acknowledged, and healed."

How true!

We are wired for love and to belong. Belonging is not just a need, it is a core desire embedded in our cells that keep us alive. In order to be loved and to belong, we must keep our 'compassion window' open all-the-time! Be compassionate to understand that even though we are hardwired to belong, w…
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