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Everyday Inspiration#4: Ways to Stay Positive in Negative Situations

Hello! Beautiful Readers.

Sorry for writing after a month. I was on vacation; and had lovely time with family and friends. But I missed you all so much! Glad, I am back to my world again.  I had amazing time; as well as miserable time during this gap. Learned a lot from people and experiences. Would like to share one very important topic about-how to deal with negative people and circumstances in everyday life. I tried and applied every possible ways to deal with such people; for only one reason- I wanted to be peaceful and happy from within. I hope these possible ways will help you too!

 "It was again that time in my life- when I was going to face realities; my fears and certain relationships-that was way, way too difficult to settle with, in anyways! But I had no choice but to face those awful situations-again!" 


Every time we go back and face the actual bothering people and circumstances in life; we realize that-days are not going to be easy. "I always knew that; but had no other choice." 


"I was not worried about how they are going to accept me today; rather had only thought that occupied my mind was; I want to be in peace and stay happy and mindful during my stay. Yes! lots of peace and harmony for myself and my kids, during this stay. Anything and everything that will come up-should not shake my faith and the efforts  to remain positive in any negative circumstances. It was the real test for me after a long time; and I was ready for it. I think I was!"


In any situation; life will always give you two choices- either go with the flow or go against it. Definitely one will be easy than the other; but choice is ours. Going against is not always easy, and going with it is tough to do than said."So I decided, I will make peace with myself by accepting things that's coming my way."


It is always true that,"people will accept you the way they accept things. You cannot change them; if they don't want to." So no use struggling to change anyone. Rather live and love your life. "If you understand and realize that; you need to change, edit or delete certain qualities or behavior of yours', do it." As realization is the key to change; for better.


Here are the certain ways, I tried to stay happy, peaceful and positive amid negative people and circumstances:



1. Never surrender to your fear. Face it!

2. Remember, you are not alone.
3. See the good side that's happening right now!
4. Find inspiration around you-like reading an inspiring book or watching something uplifting.

5. Keep your mind occupied in good tasks.
6. Worship or Meditate.
7. Have Faith.
8. Believe things will change and the worst days are temporary.

"Remember! you are important; and so is your life. Everyday matters; how you spend it and or live it! Take good care; as nobody else can; or ever will!"


I am going to do some follow-up articles in this topic-in the coming days. So, stay in touch! 

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  2. Wonderful post and words. ^^
    Lovely greets Nessa

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    1. Thank you very much, Winnie for the lovely feedback!
      xoxo
      Epsita

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  4. Great blog, it made me feel up.
    Cheers from Brasil.
    HD

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    1. Thank you very much for your positive feedback! Means a lot!! So happy to hear that!
      Please keep visiting.
      Regards,
      Epsita

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  5. ottimi consigli ..io cerco sempre di non ascoltare il parere degli altri fare sempre di testa mia.

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    1. Thank you very much, Maria! I think you do the best thing by listening to just yourself and your needs...Thank you for stopping by!
      xoxo
      Epsita

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  6. Thanks for the inspiration, Beautiful. It is needed everyday. Great post!

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    1. Thank you very much, Missy May! Glad you liked my post. Thank you for being here:)
      xoxo
      Epsita

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  8. I love the way you have mentioned about how everybody life matters. Thanks for stopping by!



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  9. great tips...staying positive when surround with negativity is always a challenge but it can be done!
    have a great weekend<3

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    1. Thank you so much, Ivana!!
      You have a Great Weekend too!
      xoxo
      Epsita

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  11. Epsita... I have a person like this in my life, peronally I think it is best we stay away from each other but she won't let that happen... so I have chosen to ignore her petty and insecure comments ... good ideas here ;-)

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    1. Thank you, Launna! I am happy to know that you are doing; what you should do! Just don't care about the negative comments!!

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