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The Day I Stopped Complaining!

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Things looked so different yet peaceful; when I stopped! Stopped looking at the negative happenings; and started focusing on the good things (that was happening at the moment). "I was surprised to find out that my day and life had another side too!;  which we ignore looking at most of the times- the better side! Because we busy our minds and thoughts complaining about the things- that is not working in our it as a wife, mother, friend or may be as an employee!"

Every day may be the same; but there is always something good about each day. When did we last realize the need to focus on the good side of our day? Once we tune our brain to the complaining mode; everything seems to be dissatisfying. Nothing works; and all efforts look meaningless.

"It didn't come as a surprise to me- rather more of a self-realization! I was feeling burdened by my day; grumbling, feeling frustrated, tired and exhausted. All I wanted was, to feel the beauty of my life again!" I decided,"I will stop going into the complaining mode; and will breathe life into my life story."

Things changed once for all! Every day's household  chores got easy now (the same every day work). I had the same responsibilities; and the same amount to work to do, but more peacefully this time-because I had created some time for myself; to breathe and let my family breathe too!"
Realizing our responsibilities rather than comparing and complaining with make things simpler and appreciable in a family. We just need to understand- that we all are doing our part- someway or other. So everyone needs a little space inside the family. We get so busy worrying and making everyone tensed and unhappy (sometimes) that; we forget to live happiness and enjoy life!

We are home makers; and the way we lead our life and the atmosphere within the house- will follow the life of every individual in the family.

"I guess; I took time to understand one simple rule of life; that if you don't find peace, peace will never find you!"

Wishing you All A Wonderful Weekend My Lovely Readers!


  1. Wonderful post Epsita... we really do need show gratitude for the good things in our life daily... great reminder ♡ xox

  2. So inspiring. Always knew this, but don;t practice ,much.
    Thanks so much for ur comment on my blog !

    1. Thank you very much, Surbhi!! Glad to see you see and happy to know that, you found the post inspiring! Thanks again!!
      Love your blog and every style it so well and differently..I just love it!

  3. You're so right about this. I realised at some point in my life that, focusing on the negatives made me so miserable and depressed, so I STOPPED at ONCE!! I stopped complaining and prayed for strength. I'm still a work in process, but I'm on the right path.
    Great post, Beautiful. :-)

    1. So very happy to know that you have chosen the right path! At some point in time, we need to take control of our life-for our peace and happiness; and I feel so happy when I get to know that from my friends and readers- gives me immense peace and kind of satisfaction to know that-I am leading my favorite readers on the right path.....Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with me and liking my post!! Means a lot!!


  4. You're right, Epsita. Life would be more wonderful if we could focus more on the positive side of it. Thank you for sharing this post. :)

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