"The strongest people aren't always the people who win, but the people who don't give up when they lose."
"When you believe something can be done, really believe, your mind will find ways to do it."
-Dr. David Schwartz.
"We all have problems. The way we solve them is what makes us different."
"I guess these three awesome quotes can sum-up my learning from the last month. But I am more than excited to share the lessons; I have had the opportunity to learn-my way." Small sacrifices made for your family may seem like an ordinary task, but they make big differences. Do not make a sacrifice (s) because you have to, but because you want to (make a mindful decision).
The first quote so much resonates with me! If you haven't had any chance to meet or live failures; you would not know the pain! Giving -up in such situations can be very easy, but continuing unless you succeed is the mantra; that has got me here- where I am today. "When I often visit the previous pages of my life; I touch the numb scars of too many failures that were once my identity; but their "feel" also makes me realize- how strong and confident I have become in all these years. I am glad, I did not give up!" Life is the best teacher. All we need to do is- "believe." Believe in the mighty powers within you- that can change world. Yes! you heard me right. Changes may take time to be seen, but if you believe; you life is sure going to change and be better.
What we think reflects in our actions. If you just sit and cry out your defeats; no one will believe you. They may pretend listening to your stories, but not really! But if you can; declare your inspiring efforts that changed your story- from a loser to a winner.
Not just believe; but work dedicatedly towards bringing your dream to life. Dreams are beautiful and they can be true. First; you need to believe that it can be done, and the rest will follow!
I have had the opportunity to learn some powerful lessons from my every-day-life last month. I would like to share with you all and I hope they will be useful to make you better; a lot better each day (as they did to me):
1. Stop getting disappointed from any disapproval.
A disapproval is the beginning of an opportunity that helps us see and do things in a more better way, in a different effective way. Last month, many readers left my blog and social links. "My very first reaction was- feeling of disapproval followed by disappointment." But I was also happy about them, who are still with me. So I changed my focus and saw opportunities. "I am sure, many might be leaving me in the coming days; but I am also confident that, still many more will be joining me- who love my words and find vibes of inspiration by visiting my blog.
2. Be a busy "bee" by doing productive and your favorite tasks.
Life is tirelessly fun, when you are too busy! Whether you are a working or a full-time parent; keeping yourself busy in productive tasks can yield you awe-inspiring results. "I may sound ridiculous,but this is true!" The less I spend time in discussing problems and about others' behaviors and reactions, the more peaceful I feel everyday." I get exhausted, but keeping my mind busy all-the-time (look for your favorite tasks often in between) helps me to improve myself- in all aspects.
3. Relationship gets stronger by small sacrifices.
Small sacrifices made for your partner, not just once, but may be many-a-times may sound unacceptable; but try it! They bring good results in the coming days. They tell your partner, "you care for them!" And, "actions speak louder than words."
4. Be okay with failing in your attempts, and just keep going.
Pursuing your passion, may question you several times; if you are doing the right thing, or if it is going to be successful. Important is how far you believe in yourself. Everybody will different opinions about- what you are doing; but ignore them, their remarks and just keep going, because you believe it can be done- and you are doing it! While being in this journey, you may face many negative remarks and comments; you will fail several times, but just get up and go. "I am doing that."
5. Be the role model for your kids.
If you can maintain calmness and peace within the family; your children will learn to do that too! They are seeing the world and it's meaning through your actions and behavior. So be their best teacher!
6. Sharing more news and favorites in pictures:
a. Hereafter, I am going to write and share more fashion, beauty and personal style posts in the blog.
b. My favorite creamy mattes lip colors-of the month!
c. Do not forget to connect with nature quiet often-spend some quality time outside amidst nature-without phone and internet; just for a day. "I am sure; you will ask for more such days! I lived four such days last month- accidentally, but I will have them more often in my everyday life. And this is going to be a conscious decision:)