Thursday, October 26, 2017

Reasons Why Failing Makes You More Confident

"I’ve seen that failing has got me new wings of confidence and a great deal of learning, I’ll never get any other way. So I don’t fear failing anymore. " 

The fears of failure sabotage our confidence levels, and we start moving away from our goals. But what if I tell you that; “failing no way makes you a failure, but definitely a confident person!" This came from my experience. I was once nowhere, and by failing again and again in too many phases of my life; I accepted that- "I'm no good." More often than not it still tries to pop its head up to remind me- how many times I have failed in everything in my past? Failure is a very tough word; mighty enough to smack your confidence, and to bring down your faith on yourself. 

But don't stop just because you failed to do something once! Keep trying. Keep dreaming.

But you must be still wondering; why did I even say that, "failing makes you more confident?"
Yes, I'm coming to that!
Read on to know why?
First of all failing in something doesn’t tell you that you are not good at it, or you’ll never succeed? Failing is not a sign of weakness!
A very well-known actor and a comedian, Bill Cosby once said in his statement, “the desire to succeed must be greater than the fear of failure.”
But one of my favorite quotes is also the one said by Albert Einstein, “if you have never failed, you’ve never tried anything new.”
I believe our success completely depends upon realizing what we want to do, and why? If we are clear about the answers to these two vital questions, we will embrace failure without any fear.

When we are in our twenties, it can be hard to understand why are we failing? But fast forwarding my life in my thirties I understood that, “sometimes it’s good not to get everything that you ask for!” God had some beautiful plans for me, and (I know) I took this long to understand! If you don’t take a chance, don’t take a leap to get yourself out of your comfort zone and try different things; you’ll never know what you are good at?

When I failed in many attempts I decided, I will work hard. And I took a step back to understand where I was lacking? And how I can improve? I’m still working on my efforts to do much better, improve each passing day- I still fail, but I don’t give up!

Ever since I met my new-self; I decided that I must keep moving forward and release all my regrets and doubts, and must leave them behind me. I understood that there’s no use dwelling on them- I must explore every opportunity that is coming my way, and must try to shape my future. I can never go back and change my past, but I can definitely write my future; and I’m hundred percent confident about it.

  •    Even if you fail again and again- just don’t stop.
     Not trying at all is easier than failing. Isn’t it? But instead of living in guilt, throughout your life that you did not try doing something just because you did not want to fail- it is better to try and fail. And even if you fail, don’t let that stop you from trying! In the process of trying to achieve our goals, we will meet innumerable victories or defeats; but if we can overcome these hurdles to reach our “destination,” we’ll surely achieve success someday.   

         Don’t attach failure to your identity.

     Don’t think “failing” again and again makes you a failure person. Don’t attach your identity to being a failure in life! Just because you haven’t been successful yet, doesn’t mean you will never achieve success. Don’t personalize failure.

                 Failure drives us to change.

   Make peace with failure by accepting it. Readjust your focus and try to revisit your approach. Take ideas from the lessons and work hard to try it in a different way this time.
  I believe success must come with lots of learning and experience. Therefore it’s good if we don’t succeed in our first few attempts. The more we try, the more we become fearless and confident.

             Stop seeking others’ approval.

       Often our fear of failure is deeply connected to our fear of being judged and criticized. We worry more about what people will think about us, what will they say if we fail? I used to be like that! But if you give more power to others’ opinions and approvals, you will ultimately lose confidence in your ability to succeed. We will never be able to see how efficient and capable we are in achieving success in life! All we need to do is to drift away from such people and circumstances. Work in silent. Believe in yourself. And make it happen.


      Come, let’s break this stigma together that, “a failure in the past is always a failure!” I will try every possible way to make my dream happen, to be successful one day, and to be equally respected by them- who said, “I cannot achieve my dreams, my goals!

Monday, October 9, 2017

Tips To Look Your Best In Wide-Leg Pants

Today I'm going to share few tips on how to style wide-leg pants or palazzos'. Some of these types are also known as flare pants, which were otherwise called as bell-bottoms. These pants are a go-to-style for almost every season.

"Wide-leg pants are my most favorite wears for every day style."
 I'm no more slender to don this style with anything; but definitely my long legs help me in styling this piece of fashion, even today-with short tops, long tops, with button-down, or with a over-sized top.

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After reading too many styling tips and fashion tricks on, "how to style a wide-leg pant," I came to a conclusion that these pants can be a style statement for most of the body shapes, and for any height.

Classic and simple trend of styling these wide pants may have gone into hibernation; as we started falling for skinny jeans and slim pixie pants. But, all style icons and models have begun creating 'special' space in their wardrobe for this versatile piece of clothing.
I see no strict rules to follow when you choose to wear a wide leg trouser. Whether high-waisted or slung-slow, whether you opt to wear these pants to office or to a casual evening party, they can turn heads! However, there's a lot to keep in mind when you decide to give these pants a try- for the first time. 
Read further to know the tips for wearing wide legged pants, and how to style them with different tops, accessories, and shoes.

1. Balance Proportions

The trouser being sloppy and too baggy, needs to be worn with a "perfect" top. Try to tuck in your top, or the blouse. For creating more refined look, wear a belt or a cardigan. It is important to balance the proportions of this oversize trouser when reaching for any designs to pair with it.

2. Create a Monochromatic Look

I love this idea of creating a beautiful silhouette by wearing the same colors; especially when it's all black or all-white :)

Whatever outfit you choose to wear, a monochromatic look always looks elegant and stylish. Try this look!

3. Go for Prints or Bright Colors

Do not feel nervous bout trying the printed trousers. When paired with a printed silk or satin blouse ; the outcome looks fabulous. You can also turn heads by wearing a color blocked trouser and a top. Explore color blocking outfits- especially when you are going for wide legged palazzo or trousers. Balance the vibe with bold colors, to look more fashionable and unique in style.

4. Opt for Over sized Tops

Styling voluminous tops with wide-leg pants may sound scary, but I love tucking-in my tops. Therefore, sometimes donning this style is my favorite way to pull the look together-whether with a wide leg trouser, or with a jeans.

5. Create new silhouette with fur vests, long jackets, classic wool coats, trench coats, or cardigans.

Make your style extraordinary by wearing a fur vest over the trouser, or a long coat. I love the winter look with wide leg trousers worn with an outwear and the ankle boot.

And most importantly, don't forget to accessorize. Add some personality to your wide legged trouser by adding statement necklaces and eye-catching shoes. "I believe, "a beautiful necklace and trendy, stylish shoes can instantly amp up your total outfit.

These are just few of the chic ways (I feel ) we can style wide leg pants- whether formal or casual. And I believe we must own at least one of these pants to create different signature styles. If you have more style ideas on how to look fashionable in a wide leg trouser, please do share with us here in the comments below.

I would love to hear from you. Hope you all are having a wonderful year so far and have already started preparing for the holidays. Stay Beautiful. Stay True. And Stay Purposeful Every day.

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