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Can Lipsticks Create A Happy and Positive Mindset?

Yes, lipstick does more than you think; it's therapeutic.

Lipstick can give you a boost in your most unfavorable situation! That's fundamentally so true! Years of research has proved that especially when you're feeling under the weather, and nothing seems bright and convincing to you, try wearing a bright lipstick, and see the difference!

And yes, I affirm my statement that,"lipsticks can create a happy and positive mindset!" Putting on lipstick is a sign that you're aware of how to take care of yourself; especially during moments of adversity.

"This is a kind of self-care ritual that I like doing for myself."

Can you remember a time you were finding it hard to reconnect with your femininity, your identity as a woman? I have so many such experiences that happened with me. Especially after having a baby, we go through a roller coaster of emotions; and it's hard to take care of yourself when the focus is so much on your newborn, or on getting you…

Change Your Perspective and Change Your Life: Love & Belonging

Author Brene` Brown subtly defines love and belonging in its deepest form! I am so touched by her findings. Here what she says:

 "We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness, and affection. Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow. We can only love others as much as we love ourselves.

Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Love can only survive these injuries if they are acknowledged, and healed."

How true!

We are wired for love and to belong. Belonging is not just a need, it is a core desire embedded in our cells that keep us alive. In order to be loved and to belong, we must keep our 'compassion window' open all-the-time! Be compassionate to understand that even though we are hardwired to belong, w…

A New Start: Delving Into Career Goals and Planning

The Positive Window is not just a blog! It's my insight, on the perception of life. I remember when I thought of starting a blog in 2009, my intentions were so different than what they are today! I was looking for a platform to write my complaints, and my grievances- I wanted to be harsh in my words, and was yearning to pen down all the criticisms people had used for me in all these years- personally and professionally. But I realized, you  can't live a better life by complaining and comparing; by living those unpleasant memories again and again! I wanted to 'take flight'. I wanted to prevent unhappy memories from lurking around. And that's the reason I chose to turn my struggles, my failure stories into inspiring columns-to help others see possibilities and hope in their distress.

We've been given equal shares of happiness and sufferings; and it is up to us now how efficiently we use our blessings to move up towards the "light", and not let our self…