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How To Feel Worthy Of Success

Posted on August 18, 2020August 18, 2020 by Epsita
Photo by Jordan Whitfield on Unsplash

This morning, I went through many inspiring posts- starting from self-worth, advantages or disadvantages of social networking sites; from funny to satirical experiences, comparing behind-the-scene ‘self’ image with other’s highlighted image, from responses acknowledging one’s “worth” to comments asking- to ‘follow back.’   Don’t know why; but while reading these posts, I was trying to compare myself with others’!  I placed myself poorly on the comparison scale- that didn’t have any readings! I was  immersing myself into comparisons and stacking reasons that was enough to not recognize my self-worth! 

Do I sound familiar?    A little pinch of dissatisfaction is sufficient to bring down all your spirits, and efforts- you have been putting into your writing, blogs or in managing your fan pages. Such moments trigger anger, and endless reasons for not doing what you have loved doing in all these years!   I am sure: nobody was born famous and known! May be they were born with some inbuilt qualities that helped them in their endeavor- to be a successful blogger or a writer. But trust me, it takes a lot of your interest, curiosity, hard work, dedication and lots n lots of trust in your capabilities.   Are you one among them; who keeps their eyes and heart pinned to the comment box or to the like button- wishing that each published post gets noticed! I dare to accept that, “I am one among them too!” 

When there are some days like; I receive no visit on my blog- for some of the posts, I feel disheartened and rejected. Such events force me to  think- that writing is not my cup of tea, and I should stop it right here!    Rejections are not easy to accept. So are the failures!   The burden of past rejections and negative comments – about my writing skills constantly comes back and reminds me of my fears; but I’ve decided that, “I will face my fears and will find out the results.” Glad I did! Since then I started taking baby steps towards ‘writing.’ I am proud to say; “I have survived failures, and never gave up.” I learned the hard way!     “I am still not a pro; but I am learning and improving everyday.”   “My dream will definitely meet the reality, one day!

I believe we all need to acknowledge and value self-worth! It definitely takes time to feel confident or 100% sure about your capabilities! 

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Belittling yourself is not nice! When we are not sure about ourselves, doubt and comparison takes over our mind and heart. Whatever we do, doesn’t seem to be fit for us. This also happens when we don’t look upon ourselves – in a positive way! It is important to feel worthy; worthy of success, just like anybody else! Success isn’t limited to top rankers, and higher degree holders only; anybody who is persistent, hardworking, resilient, and focused on their journey, is very likely to achieve success sooner or later!

Every time you seem to be in a state, where you doubt your self- worth, remind yourself that, you just have one life. A life that is going to give you hundreds of chances to – be ‘you,’ to think- what others’ cannot! To create what others’ never had an idea about! To inspire lives (doesn’t matter just one life or too many!), to encourage hearts- that are sad and sulking, to be an inspiring person for many, and to stand tall and alone in the crowd- just to show the world that you’re equally worthy of love, respect, to belong, and to participate! 

Share your stories and experiences. Who knows, that may attract someone, to live a life with purpose and happiness. I learnt from my everyday experiences that; “nothing should stop you or distract you from doing what you have always dreamed of!” Not even zero responses because we are sure to find wisdom (about blogging/writing), and ideas, and tricks to be among the best some day! 

I am following my dreams; and that is more than enough to continue doing what I am doing now, or who I am today. Whether I get noticed or not– will never be the reason to bring down my enthusiasm and hard work. 
I don’t want to complain tomorrow and feel regretful the whole life, thinking that- I never tried, never took risks, never listened to my inner voice;  or could never prove that- I can! 

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42 thoughts on “How To Feel Worthy Of Success”

  1. Launna says:
    January 12, 2015 at 10:39 am

    Epsita, I know what you mean… I have been blogging for over 5 years now, for the first 2 years I had very few readers…then when my 'D' and I didn't work out, I immersed myself in writing to help with all the pain. It was about this time that I started working on really putting it out there… that took another year and a half… Then the summer I started losing weight my followers grew and they continued on from there… I am glad I did not give up those first few years and I am happy to hear you won't either xox

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  2. Epsita says:
    January 12, 2015 at 6:36 pm

    Yes, Launna…I have learned along the way that; giving up is easy. I want to continue and win someday. I am sure, I will! I am glad you did too, and you must be seeing the wonders you gained in all these years….right? Surviving criticisms and negative comments is definitely not easy, but if YOU CAN- YOU WIN!

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  3. Unknown says:
    January 12, 2015 at 8:09 pm

    Hi Espita! Thank you for your sweet comment on my site. I'm glad you did, otherwise I wouldn't have found your blog. I love the topics you write on. I understand that feeling of wanting more readers. But what I've found what works best for me, is when I ignore the numbers and just focus on my work and the readers and comments I do get on my site. Blogging takes a lot of time and I doubt there's a single blogger who became famous with just a couple of posts. Most big bloggers say it took them 2 to 3 years to be known in the blogging community.

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  4. Fashiongetsfierce says:
    January 12, 2015 at 9:16 pm

    I've just found your blog and I think it's really inspiring, it will be an honor for me if you can visit mine too, and if you want to follow, it will be a pleasure to follow you back! 🙂 <3

    Fashion gets Fierce.

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  5. Epsita says:
    January 12, 2015 at 9:27 pm

    Hi Veronica,
    It was great to connect with you. We think likewise about life and positive thinking. I am so glad I found you! Definitely we can learn a lot from each other. Thank you for your comment. I have bee in in the blogging community since 2009; but started getting serious from 2011 and from 2013 I started posting frequently. Also, I was contributing articles to another site! So I know I have a long way to go! 🙂 That's why I have promised myself to post at least one article every week:)
    Thanks again for sharing your insight and your wonderful words!!

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  6. Epsita says:
    January 12, 2015 at 9:37 pm

    Thank you so much, sweetheart! Following your blog now:)
    Stay connected!

    Reply
  7. Desirèe D'Aloia says:
    January 12, 2015 at 10:02 pm

    nice post!

    http://www.thefashionprincess.it

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  8. menopausal mama says:
    January 13, 2015 at 4:11 am

    You have to keep at it—-write daily and read, read, read! Build a solid base of blog followers. It takes a lot of time and effort but it will be worth it in the end!

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  9. Sandra Araiza says:
    January 13, 2015 at 7:47 am

    This is a really great piece, I think that's what's most important here: not giving up. And as for readers, well you've definitely got a new follower! 🙂 Keep up the good work!

    99 OUTFITS | LOOKBOOK | INSTAGRAM | BLOGLOVIN' | TWITTER | CHICTOPIA

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  10. angelaah91 says:
    January 13, 2015 at 10:07 am

    this is such a great post, very inspiring. In the past I did feel this way and I gave up on blogging. that was 3 years ago. now I've been starting to blog again since the end of October, and I'm doing just fine. This time I try not to give up 🙂
    You have a really nice blog, so motivational and nice to read 🙂 therefore I'm going to follow you.
    feel free to follow me back if you want, if you don't like it then don't force yourself 🙂

    – http://www.angelaah91.blogspot.nl

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  11. Unknown says:
    January 13, 2015 at 5:02 pm

    Wonderful post! I think it's very easy to relate. I'm glad I have never given up blogging I've come come:( but I remember I started it for me and I enjoy updating it 🙂 you have a lovely way with words and should keep writing and writing and sharing!

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  12. Epsita says:
    January 13, 2015 at 8:11 pm

    Thank you dear:)

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  13. Epsita says:
    January 13, 2015 at 8:15 pm

    Thank you, Marcia. Thank you for sharing the tips. I wrote this post with a view that reflects some message- I want to tell all of them like me, that failing in not the end- rather a beginning. Beginning of new 'you,' with surprisingly new powers and capabilities.
    Thank you for visiting me and leaving me a helpful comment!

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  14. Epsita says:
    January 13, 2015 at 8:17 pm

    Thank you so much, Sandra for such excellent positive words! You made my effort in writing this 'piece of message, really special! Following you with love. Thanks much!!
    Love
    Epsita

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  15. Epsita says:
    January 13, 2015 at 9:32 pm

    Thank you very much, Angela for leaving me a positive feedback! This definitely means a lot. Glad to know you like my blog and the posts. I will try my best to share interesting 'positive' articles. Following you now!
    Love and kisses
    Epsita

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  16. Epsita says:
    January 13, 2015 at 9:39 pm

    Thanks a ton, Christina! Your beautiful words truly made my day. So happy to learn that you were able to relate with your story. And I am glad, you didn't give up! I wrote this piece with a message that I want to share it everyone- like me- who has seen failures and rejections in their life. Never ever give up on what you want to do-with love and interest. Your hard work and dedication will definitely pay you one day:)
    Thanks again!

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  17. Subham Rai says:
    January 14, 2015 at 8:36 am

    Love Love your blog post & blog name. In my case, I avoid comparing myself to anybody else
    & I also allow myself to make mistakes & try not to be too hard on myself because honestly
    when you see someone killing it out there you tend to question your own efforts a lot. It
    is difficult but once you let the process happen, slowly everything [even the failure] feels okay.

    Amazing post & would you like to follow
    each other on GFC, Google+ & Bloglovin? Lemme know & lets keep in
    touch!

    X
    http://subhamrai.blogspot.in/

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  18. Lux G. says:
    January 14, 2015 at 3:49 pm

    I so agree with this! You are valuable and special. There is nothing ordinary about you. 🙂

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  19. Z says:
    January 15, 2015 at 7:38 am

    Nice post, thank you for sharing! I sometimes think the same way.
    xoxo
    http://thestyleberry.blogspot.com

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  20. Epsita says:
    January 16, 2015 at 2:25 am

    Thank you very much, Subham. Very True! "Even Failures are easy to deal with, once we know how to."
    Sure! Following you back.

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  21. Epsita says:
    January 16, 2015 at 2:34 am

    Thank you, Lux! True!!

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  22. Epsita says:
    January 16, 2015 at 2:39 am

    Thank you, Zane! Glad you liked it. Following you now on GFC and G+ ….

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  23. Subham Rai says:
    January 17, 2015 at 9:14 am

    Followed you back. Keep in touch!

    X
    http://subhamrai.blogspot.in/

    Reply
  24. Balqis DBJ says:
    January 17, 2015 at 12:49 pm

    I do have the same thoughts as yours. I keep on writing even just a very short post.

    This post is really an eye-opener. Thanks so much for sharing. 🙂

    Reply
  25. Narvaga says:
    January 17, 2015 at 4:20 pm

    Hi!
    Amazing blog!
    Would you like to follow each other? (GFC, Bloglovin, Facebook)
    If so, please let me know, I will follow you back immediately.
    xoxo

    http://narvaga.blogspot.com

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  26. Pelin TOY says:
    January 17, 2015 at 11:50 pm

    Great Post Dear! I am following you and following back if you like my blog :))) Kisses…
    http://tasarimkaravani.blogspot.com.tr/

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  27. Unknown says:
    January 18, 2015 at 10:13 pm

    Lovely post! 🙂

    I would like to invite you to my blog! I would be so happy if we support each other on Bloglovin, GFC and Facebook!
    Do it and let me know! xx

    Blog | Facebook Page | Bloglovin | Instagram

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  28. Epsita says:
    January 19, 2015 at 6:13 pm

    Sure, Subham! Thank you:)

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  29. Epsita says:
    January 19, 2015 at 6:15 pm

    Thank you very much, Balqis! Glad I did this post; because I am sure many of us struggle to overcome this feeling of failure and rejections. I hope this post will help many to feel good and give them courage to continue. Happy to know you liked it!

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  30. Epsita says:
    January 19, 2015 at 6:16 pm

    Thank you, Narvaga! Thank you for stopping by. Following you now!

    Reply
  31. Epsita says:
    January 20, 2015 at 12:38 am

    Thank you so much! Following you now:)

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  32. Epsita says:
    January 20, 2015 at 12:40 am

    Thank you, Reneta:)
    Thank you for leaving me a comment. Following you now.

    Reply
  33. Aurelia says:
    January 20, 2015 at 12:22 pm

    sounds very interesting, reat blog. Following you now, hope you will do the same
    http://aprettylife13.blogspot.hu/

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  34. Epsita says:
    January 20, 2015 at 6:11 pm

    Thank you very much, Aurelia:) following your lovely blog now!

    Reply
  35. EMILIA says:
    January 25, 2015 at 11:29 am

    Following you 🙂

    Reply
  36. Epsita says:
    January 26, 2015 at 5:47 pm

    Thank you, Emi:)

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  37. Unknown says:
    January 28, 2015 at 10:13 pm

    Love this Xxx Keep up the positive messages, they're uplifting

    http://itsjustwinnie.blogspot.co.uk/

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  38. Epsita says:
    January 30, 2015 at 6:34 pm

    Thank you very much, hun! Glad you liked it, dear!

    Reply
  39. BEAUTYEDITER.COM – Beauty Blog says:
    March 22, 2016 at 3:33 pm

    I love this so much! Have a great day dear. 🙂

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  40. Unknown says:
    March 26, 2016 at 3:50 pm

    Great post Epsita ! It was really interesting to read !

    http://www.luv4beautyblog.com

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  41. Epsita says:
    March 31, 2016 at 7:38 pm

    Thank you so very much!!

    Reply
  42. Epsita says:
    March 31, 2016 at 7:54 pm

    Thank you so much Dear<3

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