We all crave for this “super” need- at least from our partner/life partner- to make us feel special. We love to know – we matter in their life.! And I’m no different:)
I guess, that’s why God created those “special” days in our life- when we have all rights to expect special treatment, love, and care like: our birthday, wedding day, mother’s day, father’s day; etc. And we women especially love feeling special, getting surprises, and definitely gifts (doesn’t matter big or small).
It was last week (May 18th), I celebrated my birthday; and before the month flies away I wanted to do a post where I can show you some of my celebration pictures. I can’t tell you, how special this month makes me feel! I absolutely love receiving wishes, love, and blessings from my friends and family. It is always a great feeling to know- you matter, and also to know people care about you. This is the reason, I try my best to make my friends, family, and kids feel special on their birthday, or on any other ‘special’ days. We all have that need- to be loved, and be somebody-at least once in a while.
A relationship gets stronger, as we learn these tiny little tricks to treat each other. I must say, “I’m lucky to have such a understanding hubby. He is more of a close friend to me, and too good in reading my mind:)….I have had always believed that, wishes come true, and he is my first wish that came true.” We are like normal couples- no different; but there is definitely one thing that we do differently -we never forget to make each other feel special-in every possible way. We try our best to give lots of space to each other, and respect our love, likes, and the relationship we share. We happily participate in planning surprises for each other- more privately than flashing it on social networks. “I love the way he makes me feel special on all occasions:):)”
My birthday celebration was no different. But this time my daughter (who is going to be 6 yrs old this July:)) joined him in planning the surprise (everything)…that was such a cute gift for me. You know something; I have learned from my experience- don’t wait for your partner to surprise you all-the-time; or to make you feel special every time, you also actively participate in doing so. Make him feel that he is special to you and to your kids. He’s got all the ‘rights’ to feel important and to have similar expectations, that you expect from him!
Something I want to share with you all- All my clothes, fashion accessories, jewelries, shoes, bags; etc are all my husband’s choice. From the day we met till today, I haven’t shopped alone for myself. I’m used to him. I love his picks- and will always wear his choices:)
So I wanted to share few of my recent favorites. A peek into my collections. All in pictures:
|With My Two Little Angels:) My Daughter- Yutika and My Son-Archit
“Everyone deserves to feel wanted and feel special once in a while.”
You don’t feel any less. Remember, you’re special and you have all rights to stay happy and feel “good” about yourself.
Do let me know your thoughts about this post:) Can’t wait to hear from you.